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BDSM Paddles


Browse our large selection of the best sex paddles on the market. Designed to provide delicious sensations, our spanking toys offer extra stimulation for more powerful orgasms.

Whether hard or soft, stimulating or intriguing, all our BDSM paddles are fun, safe and easy to handle. Shop online for your ideal bondage sex toys and enjoy intense sexual pleasure.

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What is a BDSM Paddle?

A BDSM paddle is a sex toy with two flat sides and a handle used for erotic spanking.

Erotic spanking is the act of spanking another person for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. The intensity of the act can vary in both its duration and severity, and may include the use of one or more spanking implements (such as the wooden spoon or cane). Activities range from a spontaneous smack on bare buttocks during sexual activity to sexual roleplaying, such as ageplay or domestic discipline. (Wikipedia)

BDSM paddles - also known as bondage or sex paddles - are high-sensation sex toys designed to create an intriguing power-exchange experience between partners. Compared to a hand spanking, sex paddles can cover a wider area for maximum impact and greater pleasure during hot impact play. Used as a form of punishment, spanking sex toys provide extra stimulation to the spankee and make the handler feel in control.

From simplistic designs with ergonomic handles to beautiful designs with the finest, hand-made belt-like handles, BDSM paddles are manufactured from skin-safe, durable materials. Such as 100% ultra-premium silicone, vegan leather, wood, cloth or soft faux fur.

Regardless of the material, spanking with a paddle for sex play will increase the blood flow to the skin, stimulating nerve endings and making the body more sensitive. Some people achieve orgasms simply from the pain of being spanked.

Sex Paddles & Handles: Silky Soft, Faux Leather & Thwack Paddle Designs

At Romantix, we carry an array of paddles that can fulfill any fetish experience and all sorts of pain. Check our list of the top 5 paddles styles, from deliciously soft to hard and sturdy:

  • Silky-Soft & Fancy - Designed for both beginners and experienced BDSM lovers, some fancy models feature silky exteriors and leather interiors. That said, they can be used to deliver light, stingy sensations on the skin, or intense, heavy thuds.
  • Velvety & Sassy - With one side made of velvety-soft, skin-safe material and the other of faux leather, a fur lined paddle will help you deliver or receive all kinds of pleasurable thrills. You can also try other types of paddles made of cloth for similar body sensations.
  • Smooth & Playful - Acrylic and wooden paddle designs have comfortable handles and smooth surface for wild skin-spanking sessions. Wooden paddles can be an ideal option for people with sensitive skin, while an acrylic paddle with holes will deliver extra sensations.
  • Leather-Bound & Sturdy - Made from high-quality, durable material, leather spanking paddles are a perfect tool for playful sessions. Are you looking to deal with a serious skin and body punishment that will pleasure your partner? Leather paddles are your best choice.
  • Precise & Versatile - Precise and with flexible handles, thwack paddles made of silicone or rubber materials are a versatile and powerful tool. This design is perfect for genital or targeted body impact and can also be used as a dildo.

How to Incorporate BDSM Spanking Paddles into a Couple Play

When it comes to BDSM spanking, it's essential to maintain open communication with your partner. If you have never discussed it with your partner, mention what you'd like to try the experience. Tell each other your role play fantasies and what sorts of pain you enjoy.

Spanking paddles can get you closer to your partner, but if used wrong can have a negative impact. That said, start slow, using your hands to spank, then move onto BDSM paddles - made from body-safe materials - to increase the intensity and pleasure. Remember to choose a safe-word and pay attention to how your partner reacts.

Leather Paddles Fun, Stinging Sensations or Whip Punishment?

Similar in function, spanking paddles and whips are great sex tools to enjoy BDSM sex. BDSM beginners can start with paddles made from soft, skin-safe materials, as they are a safer option for those not familiar with the practice. Experienced users, on the other hand, tend to prefer the body stinging that whips, floggers, crops, and canes provide.

For even more impact pleasure, whips and paddles can be used together with all sorts of bondage restraints. Experiment using mouth gags, collars and leashes, wrist straps or a Shibari rope for extra stimulation and a more thrilling experience.

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While Romantix offers a wide range of sex paddles and spanking toys for hot impact play, we also carry a big selection of other amazing BDSM toys and fetish clothing including collars and leashes, mouth gags, nipple toys, wrist cuffs, restraint bondage and whip flogger sets, leather slappers, bondage gear and sexy plus size lingerie for every kinky sex session.

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