Double Dildo Sex Guide: Learn How to Best Use Double Ended Toys!

Millions of Americans own sex toys. Whether it's a classic dildo, a cock ring, a vibrator, or something else, adding a sex toy or two to your collection can make sex or alone time more pleasurable. A double dildo is a popular sex toy for couples, but also when you’re flying solo.

You'll see a few different names for this sex toy, like double-sided dildo, double-ended dildo, and dual dildo, but they’re all the same. If you’ve never used a double dildo but are curious about what they are and why you might want to explore with one, you’re in the right place.

Why People Use Double Dildos

The most straightforward reason people use double dildos is to feel good! If you're into double penetration or want to share a dildo with a partner, double dildos are a kinky way to do so.

A double dildo can elevate your orgasm, whether you're a man or woman. They provide a more intense sensation no matter how you use them. Men can share a double dildo, as can women. You can even use them on your partner to help intensify their orgasm and see what other things they enjoy in the bedroom.

Types of Double Dildos

One of the best parts about a double dildo is the variety to choose from. They come in different materials, shapes, sizes, and other options to browse and explore.

Material

Sex toys come in a lot of different, safe materials. Some people prefer silicone because it feels more realistic, while others enjoy a metal or glass toy that is perfect for temperature play.

You'll find most double dildos are made with silicone for easy movement and pleasure. These tend to be some of the most popular options, especially when you're playing with a partner since they can be more comfortable for both parties.

PVC is another popular material for dildos and double dildos. It's still pretty flexible and comfortable for almost everyone who wants to experiment with these toys.

In some sex shops, you can find double dildos made with glass and metal, but these are far less common because being able to fit in two holes at once requires more flexibility than a traditional dildo. Whether you’re using a double dildo solo, on a partner, or with a partner, flexibility is key to a pleasurable and comfortable experience.

Texture and Appearance

Texture and appearance are huge things when picking out any dildo, including a double dildo. You’ll find plenty of double dildos in vibrant colors like purple, red, and blue, to name a few.

If you prefer more realistic-looking and feeling dildos, then you’ll want to go with skin-toned double dildos. These double-sided dildos almost always come with veins or other textures to add extra pleasure when using them.

Many dildos in fun colors also come with texture, but not all of them do. If you’re interested, you’ll want to read the product description to ensure the one you want has ridges, veins, or other textures.

Size

Size isn’t always everything in the bedroom, but when it comes to choosing a double dildo for yourself or for you and a partner, it does matter.

Like other dildos, you can find double dildos in various sizes that suit almost everyone. When shopping for a double dildo, you’ll find that many have one dildo that’s slightly larger than the other.

These are perfect for women flying solo who prefer something larger in their vagina but smaller in their second hole. The double dildos you can share with partners are the same size on both ends.

You’ll want to carefully review the girth, length, and insertion size of the double dildo you choose. A good rule of thumb is to start small and then work your way up to a larger size.

The last thing you want is a double dildo that is too big and causes discomfort and even pain. Remember, these toys are supposed to intensify orgasms, not prevent you from having one.

Shape

There aren’t many shapes of double dildos, but there is still more than one. Some look more like a long stick. These are great for maneuvering how you see fit.

Some double dildos come in a U-shape. The curvature of the U can vary, but these are great for partner play. They provide enough room to fit one side in you and one in your partner but can easily slide into both holes.

Some double dildos look like a standard dildo but with a smaller one just beneath the larger one. These dildos are geared more towards solo use or your partner using them on one person.

Depending on your preferences or what you like in the bedroom, the shape of the double dildo you choose can change. There’s nothing wrong with experimenting with different shapes.

Vibrating

Last but certainly not least is the vibrating double dildo. If you’re looking for an even more intense and pleasurable experience, choosing a double dildo that can vibrate is an excellent idea.

Not all double dildos can vibrate, so you'll want to make sure you choose one with these capabilities if you want one. They come with several vibration patterns and settings so you can really explore your body and learn what feels good to you or your partner.

Tips For Using Double Dildos

Once you buy the double dildo you want to try, you can start playing with it! Even if you have experience playing with a dildo and other sex toys, there are a few things to consider before jumping right in with your new double dildo.

Use Lube

Whether on your own or playing with a partner, lube is one of the best ways to limit discomfort and elevate an orgasm. Trust us, even if you don’t usually use lube in the bedroom. You’ll want it for this double-penetration sex toy.

Since the anus isn’t self-lubricating, you'll definitely need some form of lube, at least for this hole. Using lube will allow for easier insertion and will feel ten times better than if you try to use a double dildo without it.

Start Slow

As with other sex toys, you probably don't want to just shove this toy in. But if that’s what you’re into, then by all means, go for it. We highly recommend starting slow when using a double dildo, whether you're pleasuring yourself, your partner, or you’re both using the toy simultaneously.

Starting slow will allow your body to adjust to the toy. Listen to your body and adjust accordingly. Listen to what they’re saying and their body language when playing with a partner. Doing so will result in a more enjoyable experience all around.

Experiment With Movement

Once you’re comfortable with the double dildo inside you, you can start experimenting with different movements. Moving around can help you find what feels good and help you have a better orgasm.

If you’re alone, you can try sliding the double dildo in and out at a pace that feels good to you. Feel free to change up the speed too!

When playing with a partner, you can slide toward each other to insert the double dildo further into each other. Finding movements that feel good is key, and it might take time. Don’t get discouraged if you aren’t sure what feels best to you right away.

Final Thoughts

Double dildos, double-sided dildos, or whatever you want to call them, are kinky sex toys that can make a great addition to your collection.

Whether you love double penetration but don’t have a partner, have a partner but want to help them experience a more intense orgasm, or share a double dildo with someone, prepare for a sensation like no other. You can shop our collection of double dildos and get to use them soon.